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Tuesday, February 26, 2002  


Expanding horizons

There's something wonderful about the meal ritual. Friends gather and share, eat. This month a few of my longtime friends met to share a meal with a new addition to our group: Mohamad Mohamad.

Suzy and I met Mohamad on the train from Toronto. It was a Sunday, and the train was nearly empty. Even in those pre-September 11 days, I wondered why the middle eastern-looking man across the aisle from us seemed nervous. As it turned out, the VIA Rail ticket agent was harrassing Mohamad because he had so much luggage. Every time the agent passed Mohamad he said: "You are going to have to pay! We are coming back to take you to the front so you can pay. Those are the rules." The ticket agent was going to charge Mohamad because he had extra bags on the empty train.

I was furious! Here was a landed immigrant, with everything he owned with him, being made to feel uncomfortable as he moved to a new city!

That got us talking to Mohamad. It didn't take long to engage him. He was well-spoken, kind, and obviously interested in getting to know new people. Suzy and I admired him: He had everything he owned with him that day, and was moving to Ottawa to start a new life. When we found out he was from Iraq, and was about our age, I couldn't help but think of the Gulf War and where I was the night it started. I was watching it on TV, eating pizza and flipping between shots of the lit-up Baghdad sky and the Simpsons. I felt guilty. "Sorry about the war," I said -- Suzy jabbed me in the ribs. We then talked with our new friend all the way to Ottawa, and he was not charged extra for his bags.

Mohamad moved into the YMCA, and then found a room in a house in the west end. He now works designing computer chips at Galazar Systems, and is doing well. We're proud to know him, and we hope he stays. Canada needs more people like Mohamad Mohamad.

Earlier this month my friend Richard and his wife Lili hosted a Middle East dinner in Mohamad's honour. Richard and Lili have a swanky new loft apartment in Westboro, so it was a great chance to break in their new place. The dinner was pot-luck: Mohamad made a traditional Iraqi dish (mergé temmen), Suzy and I brought hommous and baklava, Alex and Claudette dabbled in babba ghanoush, and Berni made the tabouli. Richard, our host, tried his hand at a delicious Lebanese chicken dish.

We visited, and ate, listened to arabic music, and had a great time. Mohamad tried on Richard's parka as we tried to convince him that wind chill was something to be feared -- even during the warmest Canadian winter on record. It all goes to prove you never know who you'll meet on a train. As they say in Arabic: Ensha'allah (what ever is God's will).

>> Have your own Middle East dinner party. Click for the recipes!

>> Check out the photos from the party.


posted by Stuart Hickox | 9:22 PM
 

UPDATE: Some family news:

1) Val's getting married! My sister's boyfriend Stevie Wood proposed with roses, a honeymoon suite and a diamond. He did it with class. "Stu, I only plan to do this once. And I'm calling to see what you have to say." He called my brother and parents too. Val said yes, and is planning an August wedding in PEI. Here's Val and Stevie in 2000 when they were helping to renovate our cottage, Plover Dunes Retreat.

2) In a warm-up for the inevitable love child, my brother Lowell and his wife Sharon now have a dog, named Moose. I was lobbying for "Harley" or "Tofu", but those were too Eastern Canada. We receive almost daily updates: "Yes, we were up in the night because he was crying -- poor fella". Good practice, folks. Relax. Kids don't usually need newspapers on the carpet.

3) Check out the new Jasper Video! I'm testing a video capture and editing programme. Please let me know how this works for you (speed, quality, etc.)
Jasper says BOO.

4) Our friend (and soon to be family member) Berni Wood -- sister of my sister's new fiancé -- landed a new job this week. Berni has been undervalued and underpaid in a government of PEI film and new media job for 20 years. Now she can finally thumb her nose at the bureaucracy (and we hope she flips them something, too) because she's the new Regional Vice President (Atlantic Canada) for the Canadian Television Fund. Way to go Berni!

>> Here's a pic of Berni at our recent Mid-East dinner party)
>> The press release about her appointment.

posted by Stuart Hickox | 8:55 PM


Sunday, February 24, 2002  

O Canada!
Finally, something to really cheer about! As they say, revenge is a dish best served GOLD. Fifty years after our last Olympic Gold hockey medal, we bring it back. And what a game!

What a wonderful opportunity for our country:

- Teach them young.
- Instill the dream in them; show them the "Cup" - the result of achievement.
- Instill a sense of pride, but make them work for it.
- Let them know success won't come easily.
- Equate success with national purpose.

If we can harness this sense of purpose into other things, just imagine what we can do.
A cure for cancer? NO PROBLEM!
Go Canada GO!

posted by Stuart Hickox | 7:04 PM


Thursday, February 21, 2002  

Groundswell
I'm getting lots of great mail about my political rant, posted yesterday (below). One person suggested I pack up my family and flee Ottawa, forgetting politics for a while -- "paint, meditate, farm". It does sound good! Another reader wrote about my call for an alternative energy solution: "Set an example, and get rid of your car." Great idea, but you first, buddy. As soon as there's an affordable, mid-sized hybrid car, I'm buying it. Incidentally, the technology to make one widely available has been around for over a decade. Why we don't have them on our streets has less to do with technological hurdles than lack of demand. Thanks to saturation advertising, the public is more interested in Web-enabled cell phones and other superfluous communications junk. (And billions of dollars has been spent introducing them into the market -- think about that the next time you see cell towers winking across the skyline at night). For more information along these lines, see a fantastic article, "Why Technology is Failing Us: and How We Can Fix It" in Shift Magazine.

I love this discussion: Keep sending mail. What's most fun, but least surprising, is that no one is jumping to the defence of the Prime Minister, our "leader". Last time I met him in person (for a client photo shoot) he asked me, "So, you for your company, you spend lots of time skating on the Internet?"

'Nuff said.

posted by Stuart Hickox | 12:49 PM


Tuesday, February 19, 2002  

Storm the Peace Tower
Something in me yearns for a knock-em-down, clear-the-decks political revolution in Canada. But a revolution will never happen here. We Canadians like to be told what to do, what to believe. Our Prime Minister lies, twists, denies, shrugs, and we let him get away with it. I'm not a big fan of Pierre Trudeau, but he had something right when he said he'd rather see Canada go out with a bang, not a whimper. Who's crying now? Anyone who still believes we can be more than a backwater nation of wannabes.

I'm a hopeless idealist. I know it because people tell me (frankly, I don't take it as an insult). They roll their eyes in their heads when I get exasperated and start to wave my hands and talk about "what we should do as a country". I still believe we need a Prime Minister that takes a stand and that tries to engage the collective imagination. And what's wrong with that? Why do people groan when I say this? Canadians have had great ideas before!

- Someone once had the nerve to declare that we would connect Atlantic to Pacific by rail. Across the Rockies? Never! Impossible!
- Someone once said that women in this country should be recognized as "people", and be accorded the rights and responsibilities of such status. Heavens, no! Imagine!!
- Another person dared to suggest that the state could provide universal, comprehensive health coverage.
- Yet another recognized that while we would never dominate the world, but we could police it, and work for peace where there is war. Good Lord, how could that be!?

Those things were all achieved, we take them for granted. And now many of our greatest achievements are being stripped away. Still we do nothing.

What are our leaders saying today? Nothing. Squat. Diddle.

Are there pressing global issues for which Canada could provide leadership? Hell, yes: Children are starving to death at 35,000 per day around the world. While the US makes war, we could broker peace. The world needs pioneering research in alternative energy to avert an ecological disaster. International trade discussions lack a mediating voice between social unrest and corporate domination. Players in millenia-old religious wars could use the patient perspective of a mature, multi-ethnic, panentheistic nation.

Are we meeting any of these needs, or any others? No. None. Is anyone even suggesting we do? Nope. We're cowed by cheap gas, SUVs and box retailers. And, meanwhile, Mr. Chrétien can do whatever the hell he wants.

History will be his judge. And ours.

posted by Stuart Hickox | 9:00 PM

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(02.26.2002)
Mohamad Mohamad: Ready for winter.

>> See the photos from our Mid-East dinner party.
>> Have a Middle East dinner party: Recipes here.

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Turning 20 was a gas.

In 1987, Canada mingled in Nice, to mixed effect. >> See the Revealing full photo.
>> See the cover photo archive.

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(01.15.2002)
Digging in. Walden tree day 1995

Chestnuts and crazy volunteers
at the top of the hill.
See the Walden Tree Day Photo Album.

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(01.07.2002)
Jasper: Don't label me.

None required, son.
Critical observations of early '02.

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(11.19.2001)
Walden Cabin 1996
See the photos.

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photos from the hill
Updated - September 12, 2001

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Head for the Hills of
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Henry David Thoreau (1817-1862)
Walden; Or Life in the Woods

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