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Sex biscuits, baguette, food for thought. UCF was my second year of university, and my first real year of life as an adult. I had no money, a bike built for a 6'4" man (way too big) as transportation, and no idea what I was doing. Now that fourteen years has passed, I am willing to admit two things about that year: I used to steal chocolate croissants from the hotel kitchen for breakfast, and I had a huge crush on my English Rhetoric professor, Barbara Kraus. The croissants were easy, but I knew Barb was much too old for me -- at 26, she commanded good writing and lots of experience. I gave her what I could. UCF was an interesting cross-section of Canada -- students were selected to represent all provinces (I bore the sole responsibility of representing PEI). The wine flowed freely, all day. We travelled on forged rail passes across Europe, sleeping in train stations and stoned under overturned boats on the docks of Amsterdam. I published the student newspaper, La Baguette, which we pieced together into the wee hours with old typewriters, glue sticks, and more wine. The student body, a microcosm of Canadian society, intermingled in unprecedented ways. Vive le Canada uni! We laughed, we cried, we ate cheap pâté. Jane and I discovered each other early in the year. I liked her cutting sarcasm, and her self-deprecating analysis. I think she wondered how I managed on the Riviera with only one change of clothes. Her private suite was my refuge in our crampt hotel. It was all innocent, except for the 2kg bags of vanilla wafers printed with sinful sayings: "Pas ce soir", "Plus fort", etc. Jane taught me the meaning of the word maudlin, and indulged me in it. She listened and was gentle with me as I shed the PEI worldview, and I let her throw sex biscuits at me with impunity. It was great. We lost touch in the 90s. But I kinda always knew where she was and, as it turns out, she was keeping tabs on me too. Over the past two years, we have both faced some terrible things in our lives, so this week it was time to get maudlin again, if only for a minute. I think we were both also happy to discover that the essential ingredients of friendship, first sampled in the belly of the South of France, remain a delight.
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Turning
20 was a gas. In 1987, Canada mingled in Nice, to mixed effect.
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